"And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us:"
You can have any fake thing you want instead of caring to bear fruit, and you can have any fake one you wish, leaving Him aside. But are you ready to put up with your female or male version? If being fruitless is not unpleasant to yourself, because you're not looking inwards, it'll certainly be when you find yourself dwelling with your condition in someone else.